Not sure why your recent comment does not show up on my post, but I did get it in my inbox. Perhaps you missed this comment, from the coordinator of the exchange:"I as one of the hostesses of the SSS am a little confused myself...I thought I was perfectly clear that gifts were to be valued at $20 and while this may have been a truly heartfelt gift it is evident it is not $20 and it is unfair to you who I know went above and beyond for your sss exchange partner"So yes, my feelings are relevant. But I knew that even before getting the above comment. I think gracious (to use your word) also extends to leaving comments on people's blogs.
Now I see your comment. It's on the post previous to todays, in which I elaborate on my feelings.
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